Sunday, February 24, 2008

Blog Closure

Hi Friends,

long time no see
I hardly get any time to write my blog... u know about my dad health issue
moreover i got married....

so my life no longer belongs to only me ... and i cant share it so openly... well there were many incidents before i got married but i have no time to write about them.. so just for records will write date and the incident.....

but u never know when i will start writitng again ....

30-oct - dad hospitalized... head CT ... he was paralized... stayed in hospital for over 19 days

7-nov - my birthday... proposed my long time crush for marriage... today i just thanks that it was never accepted

8-nov - Pranav.. yes.. new addition in family.. shalini didi and ram jiju .. pranav u are just a day late.. else we would had shared same bday.... anyway now u are the charm i am a oldiie :-(

9-nov - aditi came to delhi .. the sweet angel.. met her for the first time.. dont belive vijayshree bhabhi... she is actually really silent and not a trouble maker...

9-nov - diwali ... so dad was on short leave .. he was at home for diwali...

10/11-nov - sahaj programs .. after a long time mother spoke and spoke for over 30 minutes.... thank u mother for ur blessings

18-nov- sahaj form filled... for marriage ... :-)

19-nov- bonus declared, salary revision letter.. they increased a bonus for sep08... but the letter is not signed so god knows if i will get the sep08 bonus or not

21-nov-dad discharged.. hurray

16-dec- dad drove back from hospital ... hurray...

19-dec- bike touched 100km/hr on way to ranbaxy on NH8.. bajaj u claimed max speed at 9X .. how come by bike reached 100???


27-dec-2007 - got married ...... and from that incident, its time to stop the blog...

Sunday, October 07, 2007

Dismisal appraisal

Well

every one in my department got promotion
sumit was make senior from semi senior
mathew s2 from s1 (probably)
amit malik am2 from am1
venu m2 from m1
shruti am from s2

except me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

in term of increment sumit already had 80% hike , shruti had 80% this time , venu 50% , amit kalik 30% ... expect me just 18%

and the best part it expect venu who is a manager non have the qualification and/or experiance as i had...

so what went wrong.......... why should i continue......
well the priorities in my life is currently not my job... so i have accepted it as a part of my destiny..........

any way.. dads health has detiorited a bit ... he is having more cough and now feels pain if he sleeps on right part of body ... his heamopathic medicine has started but not so visible or encouraging stuff... might be seeing this due to stop of ayurvedic treatment...... :-(


on the other hand, life is cool... just there office and home tensions come and go :-)

Regards
AiMIT

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Life by statments

2 jobs interviews

1 with axis consultancy.. goofed up with director round
2 with wipro consultancy.... thru with the technical round... pending HR round...
dad had his second CT scan... the results show that cancer have spread ..
india won the first twenty20 world cup
done with the pepsi.. now to start with some company called rosmerta...
ghar a fridge doobahra kharab ho gaya... probably requires a compressor change :-(

that was my life in simple statements for last week and a half

Regards
AiMIT

Sunday, September 09, 2007

Parents are back from Vashi

Parents are back
Formatted my Cellphone
Fight with sister
Salary finished
Promotion time

Well last Saturday (1-sept-2007) I had a great talk with my dad and I forced him to postpone his plan to come back to Delhi on 4th sep to 8th sep. So yesterday they are finally home. Around 17 days of meditation has made him back to normal , speaking politly … well just till a hour ago.. when he raised his voice over a small issue… my comment that Duracell are bad batteries….

Anyway he is back to meditation and is feeling better….

Next comes my cellphone.. Had to send some 2K smses … tried to send them through my mobile connected to laptop.. 15 SMSes went and then sms sending started to fail… to my horror their were 800+ smses in my outbox showing them to be failed… and there was no option to delete them in a go…. So had no chance but to format my mobile…. Well I took backup of my address book and smses… and forgot the calendar…. And after format I realized that putting sms back on phone is nearly impossible…well atleast the pc suite does not take it…. To add to it… gmail and google maps apps were not opening and I had to install them back… alarm , short cuts every thing was lost and it took me around 2 more hours to restore the mobile to acceptable levels

Well in last one week had a great fight with my sister… but I managed to cool her off the very next day… so all’s chillz now and she also understand the point for me cancelling otherwise a perfect chill out program :-)

Well as far as personal life is concerned.. its again salary getting finished in the first week itself. With back account back to the minimum level. Well this time it was a payment of 17K+ credit card bill and other small small things…

Coming back to office.. I had a clear expectations set out to my boss for the coming appraisal cycle…I was the first to start the trend and I thought my expectations were on the higher side … this went on till the time I asked my other collegues about their expectations and I realized that I had set low expectation viz-a-viz their expectations in terms of the %growth… anyway my boss knows my future plans … so I am just keeping my fingures closed…

On movies front , saw the movie MP3…mera pehla pehla pyaar… nice cute little silly movie…can be seen once… nothing great in it…

So that was my life for last week …. Finally parents are back so there are some restrictions at some place and some independence at some place…

chalo then catch u later

Regards
AiMIT

Sunday, August 26, 2007

Mom & Dad - Vashi... meri azaadi. my 2nd poem

Well


finally thanks to my sis.. my mom and dad went to sahaj hospital at vashi.
its a hospital for cure through meditation...

with my last words with mom.. dad has imporved a bit.. they have told dad to undergo tests again after a while.. if the improvement is seen then continue with meditation only otherwise some medical treatment should be taken.

well i have stayed alone for quite some time in bangalore and pune. but its been a long time in delhi and with relatives around...u know.. People say, azaadi mil gaye.. when parents are not arround.. i will say azaadi gayab ho gayi... well parents know what i like , what i eat.. quantity i eat... now here if i say i will wash my own cloths.. or i say that i do not want to eat dinner... my god....

anyway, at office fornt its work again... with no appreciation for good work and bomb bombarded for even smallest deviation for which u may not be responsible for. anyway i saw what the manager rated the max... according to the managers who even do not know ABC of Computers rate me 4/5 for my technical ability and rate me 5/5 for team work... well when it should be vice versa... well the fact is that they cant take credibility for technical ability but can take for team work... i think my life in Grant Thornton is getting shorter and shorter day by day...

anyway with so much idle time.. i managed to write my second poem..... again on the same topic of love.. but this time on "Will you marry me"

now to whom it shoul dbe dedicated to ... the 4 N's naaaah ...well around 2 years ago i was out of touch with the 3rd N for a cool 10+year .. but thanks to orkut i visited her profile.. and tried to interact with her... but her attitude........ well all i can say thanks to god i never ever got going with her.....

so 4N's are now 3N's .... after the January should the 3rd also remain?????.. brain is saying no but the heart says yes... and fortunately or unfortunately heart wins... but dedication for her.. ummm.... here the brain wins....

i remember a joytish said i can marry anytime after Nov07 .... well so let me dedicate it to the person whom i will marry.... be it love or arranged.. i do not know... hoping for the best and ready for the worst ;)

so here comes the poem


"Will you marry me"
-Amit Arya



Growth is something that nature cant undo
A adult can never be child again
A tree can not be a seed again
and so is my love that can not diminish again


Tried hard and hard
but was not able to forget you
rather u came more and more in the dream
now i think that u r the only thing
that I have ever wanted before



Will you marry me?
I wanna be with you for all eternity.
I swear my love for you will always be.
Here, on bended knee,Baby,
I'm asking, please,Will you marry me?


Copy, paste and refit of
Artist: Berry John
Song: Will You Marry Me?
Album: All The Way To There

and
my heart

Sunday, August 19, 2007

Weekly to fornightly

Well as the trend says, I am no longer active on the blog. But I am updating it atleast once a fortnight. So from now lets make that official ;-), well downside of it is that the finer details of the life are missed. But anyway putting years together… once in 2 weeks is detailed enough. Don’t u think so

Last week I had some janoon of studies…. Started with some reading material… but unfortunately this week that janoon got over… so the same material is back in the stack… on the office front we started with the HCL Comnet SAS 70 Type II, coz I know what kind of report is being prepared and at the same time I have a fair idea of the kind of controls the company has so I know what eact things to look for.

On the personal front, 15-Aug , Indian independence day was a off. This mid week holiday was a welcome break. But at the same I time I went to varun’s house… half heartly to fly kites… well I have no more excitement with all this stuff… anyway so most of the time I spent as a charkha holder…..

From there to mandir was excitement… I had to go to nirmal dhaam and I had some fare idea to reach there from najafgargh (thanks to google earth / wikimapia) .. but the surprise was that I reached there without a halt.. without asking any body for the way…

Way back .. was another excitement, since there was light I thought to try out the other route through dwarka… here since I have not much assistance from google pictures (as the same were not updated much) .. so asked 2wice… but they suggested me the route that I had already thought to take…if they were not there :-P

Saturday, went to our gurgoan office….. it was another 70KM ride…. 2 hours drive , 9 hours waste for me … to attend a training in procurement and inventory…. And today I am sitting here writing the blog

Well mom and dad are going to vashi this Wednesday, so they will not be available for rakhi…. Well I have lived alone for a long time .. but in delhi at house.. now there will be so many formalities on food , sleep , cloths…. Man … anyway lets see.. I have some plans… anyway these are minors.. I just wish dad recovers well and fast…..

So that’s it for last 2 weeks….. catch u later soon

Regards
AiMIT

Sunday, August 05, 2007

Happy Friendship Day.. 3 weeks of bad stuff...

Well its being a long time, 3 weeks to be specific and i was away from my blog. well there many things happened in this while. but let me start with today.. i.e HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY

for last one week i was under fever , cough and cold. i had to take a official off on monday. since i was working on HCL project with my boss and the project was as a critical stage so my leave had to go through formal approval and in HR records... damn.. so it was my first official leave... else it would had been the 3rd un official work from home types

Ammy called me, he is currently working in CTS chennai. he has been into some deep mess. something related to his sify id and email address and some kind of email going to somebody from that account... well i myself dont much details but this guy is so lazy but i do not know why he lands up into such troubles.

Well my company looks to be running low on money. our salary packages have 20% reimburstment component and thanks to our too much movement to clients place we have a lot of over head expenses. we got our salary (except of reimburstments) a day late but there are no signs of the reimburstments. thats cool 20%+ of the gross salary or around 25% of the take home..... seeing this i have already started looking for a next job.. i do not want to work for a busted company

Anyway, there are some more bad news too

Rohit, my budy in reliance, his cousin is no more. he died and the family was unaware of for more than 13hours .. it was a call from police station that they came to know of such a incident

Moreover, Varun's (Anu's husband) phuphad ji expired yesterday.

I pray god to give strenght to the 2 family to come out of their greatest loss.

I think this is a overload of bad news be it health , wealth or emotional well being.
and hence pray god for a better future.

Regards
AiMIT